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As a “brand new” adult, finding a place to live that isn’t completely infested with rodents, isn’t surrounded by gang bangers, and doesn’t cost your entire paycheck can be hard. Even with a spotless reputation and references, you can’t always find what you dream of. (You lied to me House Hunters!) So when it came time for my (now) ex-husband and I to find a place to call home, we ended up in a less than 300 square foot, tiny, one-room cabin on the side of a mountain in Vermont.
When I first walked into the house, the sun was setting, golden light streaming through the massive windows. The peepers were peeping, and my deadline for finding a house was closing fast. As I looked around what seemed like a spacious one-room cabin, I was eager to call my (now) ex-husband and sign the lease. And I did. As we moved in, we really fell in love with the place. But as time went on, and stuff accumulated, we became more and more cramped. And we became more and more unhappy.
But as we looked at other houses and dreamed of larger dreams, we realized just how lucky we were. While most people our age were taking on massive mortgages and trying and fill their enormous homes with things that didn’t matter to them, it made me realize just how lucky I was.
Instead of living in a cramped apartment, where the neighbors are always shouting through the wall, the sirens are always ripping through the city, and the ceiling is leaking in that one spot. (Which is what we could have moved into, had we not found this place), we were in a single home, where the nearest neighbor was across the street. The birds sing, the wildlife moves through and the landscape is breathtaking. Living here was like having God reach down each morning as the sun touched the earth. But instead of focusing on that, I was too busy focusing on what was inside my house. And for me, that was and is not okay. So I decided to research what I could do about it. And for inspiration, I went to my favorite place: back in history.
Throughout the ages, people have always lived “tiny”. From the early settlers in America to African tribes, and the pioneers, people have always managed to live small. From single men, to married couples, to even large families, (like Dolly Parton’s family), all managed to live in tiny homes until recent history and managed just fine. Even some of America’s finest presidents (like Abraham Lincoln) lived in tiny homes with their families.
So when it comes to God’s daughters, I have a good feeling that we can manage. And thanks to our predecessors, we have a good idea of just how to do it.
1 | De-Clutter & Simplify
I cannot stress this one enough. If you live in a tiny space, and have a lot of stuff, no matter how much you organize, you will never feel content and organized in your home. No matter how much you love all three of your serving platters, it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty. Keep what you need, toss (donate) what you don’t. If you really don’t have room for it, but really want to keep it, maybe consider investing a small chunk of change in a storage unit until you move into a larger home.
Consider what people used to live with when tiny homes were the norm. Pioneer women didn’t have two sets of dishes, one for every day and one for serving. They didn’t need three winter coats. They had one of all that they needed minus servingware and cups. The important part about decluttering and simplifying, especially with clothes and dishes is that it’s important to remember you must repeat these chores with more frequency for an easier life. It’s better to do four plates, cups, and utensils each meal than to have a huge pile of dishes at the end of the day because you keep extras. Same with laundry, do a load each day and simplify what you have.
2 | Utilize All of Your Space
One thing we don’t think about when organizing larger homes is utilizing all of our space. Because in reality, we usually have too much of it. But when it comes to organizing a tiny home, we need to think about every nook and cranny. At our old home, we were so lucky to have two bookcases holding up the loft, which gave us a ton more storage. But other than that, we’re pretty much out of luck.
So when it comes to organizing your home, think of all the space you have. There are those larger spaces that could benefit from a shelf to hold more. What about adding hooks to the walls and inside of the cupboard doors to add more space? Think about adding shelving towards the ceiling to hold books.
Can you think vertically? If you have a small home but high ceilings, consider adding a shelf around the top of the room to store nicknacks or towels and such in the bathroom. Consider how the vertical space can fit your storage needs.
One big space saver you can implement is to think of moving your children of the same gender into one room. There’s no need for children to have their own room, and often giving them such things leads to selfishness, and greed. Let your children enjoy having siblings and let them learn important lessons of sharing, selflessness, and cooperation.
There are so many ways to add space to your home, and it only takes a little bit of creativity. Pinterest is always a good spot to jump-start ideas if you’re struggling to come up with some.
3 | Be Consistent in Your Cleaning
One thing with small houses, even if you don’t have much in them, is that they collect clutter fast. So make a point to set up a daily cleaning schedule, hitting all of your “hot spots” each day to keep your clutter from growing. Here are some of my hot spots that I am sure to clean every day:
- Dishes
- Shoe pile (needs to be put away in the shoe trunk) and coats (as they get thrown wherever)
- Bathroom sink
- Laundry
Cleaning these areas each day takes me about ten minutes and keeps my home feeling happy and healthy. And ready for when a surprise guest pops by!
4 | Constantly Purge Your Tiny Home
We have a very important rule in our home: for each thing you bring in, one thing needs to go out. In such a small space, constant purging is important. Between replacing things that are broken, getting new clothing, or adding to our interests, it’s important to continually purge to make room for the important things. One thing to be sure is when you do get rid of one thing, make sure it’s of equal or larger size to its replacement item.
And sometimes things enter our home without our knowledge. Partners or children bring things in from work, school, or parties and we don’t even know it. Suddenly we have 12 McDonald’s toys piled up and unused.
Feel free to be ruthless in your purging. If it doesn’t have a place in your home, it’s easily replaceable, and has no emotional ties then feel free to chuck or donate that.
If you still need help with purging and minimalizing, I would highly recommend checking out The Minimal Mom over on YouTube.
5 | Come Up with New Ideas
We are always coming up with new ideas on how to create more space in our homes. From adding a few bookshelves in an open area to adding lighting to a darker space, there is always something you can do to freshen up your home and bring peace and harmony to your family.
6 | Keep a Planner
Being able to keep track of all of your tasks, all of your cleaning, and all of your ideas for making your home a happier place and keeps you sane. I personally use The Organsed Mum. She has a website, app, pintables, books, and a Facebook group to help you get things on track. I love it and it’s been really helpful for me in trying to keep my house clean with a two-year-old and two businesses running out of it! (Not sponsored.)
7 | Give Yourself Some Grace
No matter what I’m talking about on the blog, one of the best pieces of advice I can give you is to give yourself some grace. We are not perfect beings, and we become tired, depressed, and just plain pooped. So whether you’re sick, or just need a mental health day, take some time to give yourself some grace. Ask your family for help keeping the house together and let it go just a little.
Tiny home living doesn’t have to be forever, but it can be a wonderful thing while it lasts. Learning to be grateful, and appreciative of what you have can change the perspective of your entire family. Take time to verbally show gratefulness for your home every day, and after a while, you will find that your family will too!
Hello! I'm Amanda Elizabeth, creator of The Homemaker's Cottage. As a homemaker I have constantly felt the pull between old fashioned homemaking and the fast paced world we live in today. So I created The Homemaker's Cottage: a stress-free space between the old in the new, where there is no judgement and we can learn that homemaking can be relevant, easy and even enjoyable.
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Lisa P. says
I stumbled upon your post through Pinterest, and I’m so glad I did! I thought I had read nearly everything the internet had to offer on small space organization and minimalism, but this was like a breath of fresh air. I love that you threw it back to the small homes in history, and I love the whole tone of your article. It was like a gentle sigh, when most of the articles are harsh screams of “Go! Declutter! Pair down! Don’t take a break or you’ll never finish!” I’ve been in a four day slump of just being too pooped to clean (don’t tell the FlyLady, whose methods and routines I usually follow, LOL), and this just rejuvenated me! Thank you!
Amanda Leite says
I am so happy you stumbled upon us here at A Pinch of Faith! We are happy you are here! And a breath of fresh air! I’ve never heard that one before but am loving it! I am so sorry you have been discouraged in your homemaking journey lately. I like FlyLady, but find her process hard to follow and ended up making up one of my own. I know you can do it!!!
Karen says
I think these are great tips for tiny or large spaces. I find that with more space comes more clutter, more dust, and more stuff to organize… so definitely can use these ideas… especially giving oneself grace! Thanks!
Amanda Leite says
Yes! We all need a little grace! I’m so glad you find these ideas useful! Clutter is the enemy in our home too! Lol!